Joe and I are so grateful to everyone who came and participated in our talk Attunement; Unschooling with Autism this morning.
Here are some related resources that have been very helpful for us:
1) The Sliver by Lori Pickert
2) Allowing Your Highly Sensitive Child to Shine with Unschooling by Anne Ohman
Please feel free to find me on Facebook. We look forward to continuing the conversation.
Tara McGovern 
Tara, I am really interested to hear that you have been thinking about attunement as this is the subject of my PhD! i notice that you used to be a music therapist and I am a music therapist (in the UK) working and writing about moments of attunement with adopted children and young people in music therapy. Would love to hear more about your stuff! Joy